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Secret/Confession ID#498590009 9/8/2010 1:20:56 PM

im sick of women complaining about their men. i know there are some pieces of shit out there but im talking about the guys that work hard to pay for what they have and what their significant fucking others have as well. if a guy works all day long he should be able to come home and relax and not get bitched at. if you are a woman that stays home or works part time then im talking to you. i man should be able to come home to his house after a day at work and put his feet up and have a hot meal ready for him the house should be clean and he should have clean fucking underwear in his dresser. its not that fucking hard i hate how women make it sound like such a task keeping up the house. here is a hint if you put a load of laundry maybe two loads a day in the morning every morning then you wont spend a whole fucking day doing laundry. it takes about 2 min to put a load of laundry in the washer. and then you can sit and watch life time until its done then put it in the dryer which take one more min and sweep the floor. when the clothes are dry you fold them and that takes about, i will give you 10 min. wash up the dishes clean the bathroom make the bed. all in all with kids and the down time in between laundry cycles you have spent maybe 3 hours of doing shit. then you have all day until about half 30-40 min before daddy gets home and you have to whip up a little supper. its not that fucking hard just do it. stop fucking bitching it drives guys crazy. ok i want a beer. im done.

(6) Comments

spoken like a motherfucker who has never juggled three sick, potty-training toddlers.
whoever told you staying at home with kids was a cake-walk lied to you. it's not that the tasks are arduous and time-consuming in and of themselves. it's that the list is long, and throwing kids in the mix, especially depending on how small and dependent they are, drastically changes where those tasks are on the priority list. (lord knows i get more done on the days my mom takes my kids than i do all week long.)
at least my husband acknowledges that although i may not have a commute, i sure as hell do work.

9/8/2010 8:40:32 PM

2\|	never said you didnt work im talking about the guys who go to work all day and pay the bills and get bitched at when they get home. you are an amazing woman and all mothers are amazing women they just need not bitch at thier husbands when they get home and want to put their feet up and have something to eat.

9/9/2010 5:22:30 AM

oh, no you don't, mister. no back-pedalin' or ass-kissin' now. your post wreaks of misogynistic misunderstanding, and you know it.

do you not think being isolated in baby-land would grate on the psyche? do you not have any idea what kind of pressure and expectations we're under the second we get that positive test result? the women (and men) who stay home often give up any semblance of an identity other than that of a nanny/housekeeper. some people are into the whole mommy/susie-homemaker thing, and that's great. but enjoying it or not, if their partner is anything like mine, there is no recognition of everything we've accomplished- there is just "i'm tired, where's my dinner?" imagine if you found out at the end of your work day that weren't being paid for it. you'd be pretty pissed, too, wouldn't you? i bet you'd quit on the spot. well, we can't. not only can we not quit, we also don't get other perks of a job. we don't get a lunch break- we have people trying to eat out of our plates. we don't get to clock out, leave it all behind, put our feet up, and demand to be waited on. we're the ones running around from sun-up to sun-down (and then some) taking care of everyone else.

look, we all know having kids makes things more complicated. whether you're a single parent, a working couple, or a work and stay combo, raising kids is stressful. before you go railing on how easy the other party has it, take a walk in their shoes. learn some empathy, and let your partner know you appreciate and support them. this who-has-it-tougher pissing contest is pointless...

9/9/2010 1:07:05 PM

4\|	let a muthafucka walk up in my house, put his feet up, and demand some dinner. imma serve that sumbitch a wish sanwhich... put you hands together, baby, and wish you had something there! i have shit to do and i'm tired too. at least come in with some damn manners, remember to pick up your own clothes and dishes, and then we can talk about some dinner.

9/10/2010 11:09:48 AM

5\|	shouldnt you be doing dishes or something? im sure there is some laundry that needs to be done or something other than wasting your time online. learn your place woman or be independent and get a career so you can make your own rules. men are paying the cost to be the boss. listen to bb

9/10/2010 11:19:59 AM

6\|	1/3 again..."bb" brings up a good point somewhere in that drivel. there are indeed some couples who both work all day and both want to put their feet up and relax... only there's dinner to be made, kids to be dealt with, etc. are these couples more likely to cooperate, or will they still nit-pick over who has the more stressful/strenuous/sedentary job?

9/11/2010 8:16:26 AM